I'm absolutely tired of ladies saying "God's perfect timing or the Lord's gift" as if your ovaries and mans sperm literally have nothing to do w it. Yes, God stopped his busy schedule of killing people with volcanoes to "give" you a kid. You sound so self absorbed thinking he just decided to give you a baby and nobody else who is trying so hard. Point being, he didn't give you a kid. Nobody did. YOU made it. Thank your husband's or boyfriend's balls and biology.