husband cheated ?

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ladies if u found out ur husband cheated while yall wer dating what would u guys do?

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Depends on what he did, with who, for how long and how long its been since it happened.

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Personally, if he cheated once, he'll cheat again. I'd leave.

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at that point i wouldnt even care.. id probably forget about it and move on. 
but that doesnt mean he would be sleeping in the bed. he wpuld be on the couch at least a week
hes on punishment.

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I couldn't live my life constantly worrying about and having no trust in my husband.

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I would leave. Cheating early on is even worse as all of the rest part was based on lies. There’s a huge difference if you didn’t know for two months or five years. Both are disgusting but thinking that he lied for so long is just wrong. But then again I would leave even if it happened recently.

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I don't know if it's the same but I found out maybe about 2 years ago that before me & my husband started a relationship when we were "just talking" he slept with some girl we both knew. He said he had already been drinking & that she came by "to talk" and just threw it at him. I was super pissed when I found out because I feel like if your talking to someone that means your trying to see where things will go with this person & continuing to sleep around doesn't really give that person a chance. I was mad for awhile but I decided to just let it go. It happened years ago and we have a son & home together plus this girl was never an actual threat to me. Now she just stalks us on facebook lol

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If it was in the beginning of the relationship yeah whatever. I mean i am not going to throw 6 years of marriage and 3 kids so easily. If it was one night stand yeah i can get over it, i would be mad and upset but i don’t think i would divorce him over that.

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I honestly can’t say. Cheating is a deal breaker for me. Divorce is also something I feel strongly about. 
I would heavily question why (if he told me) he waited for us to get married before telling me as he knows how I feel about divorce.

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I know I wouldn’t end it point blank. I’d have a lot of questions. I guess I’d try to understand what happened. If I “found out” vs. him just being intimate with me and opening up about it, would make a huge difference. I think seeing it as totally black and white is unhealthy. I think real relationships involve people seeing their partner as human, capable of error, capable of growth and change and I believe real love is unconditional. I think a person who draws lines in the sand like that is power-tripping, not honest with themselves or not capable of unconditional love. I’m not saying dont have boundaries and tolerate bad behavior, I’m just saying there are babies and then there’s bath water. This totally has the potential to be a bath water situation.

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Depends on your relationship and what happened

husband cheated ?

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