Balance

Hello Gentlemen, I pride myself on being a very involved father. feeding, diaper changes and anything else I can do to help. My issue is trying to find the right balance. My wife says I am trying to take over. I think I am being supportive and helpful but she sees it differently. She says I am interfering with her bonding with our daughter. I have assured her that is not my intension. I have tried easing back but it bothers me to not be involved as much. Any advice out there or similar experiences??