Could you go without sex?

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My boyfriend of 4 years says he doesn’t think he can have sex with me anymore. Ever since I had a baby, he doesn’t find me as attractive anymore. He says it’s just not the same. I feel like eventually he’s going to ask for us to be in an open relationship because recently he mentioned it. He also got a pocket vagina and that’s how he’s been getting off. He doesn’t touch me either, and I can’t seem to get him to be turned on either. What should I do?

Accepted Answer

leave girl.  u deserve better. he's disgusting

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That doesnt sound right and very suspicious

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He’s an asshole- you birthed his kid and now he doesn’t find you as attractive?!?!? Girl there is NOTHING wrong with you- HE has the issue, not you. You can try counseling, but i sure as hell wouldn’t live like that.

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throw the whole boyfriend away

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Did you let yourself go after you had your baby? If it’s something you can fix, fix it. Maybe get a momma makeover and try a sexy night. If that doesn’t work then yes I would not stay in a relationship with no sex or intimacy.

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Don’t let yourself be treated like that girl!! You focus on you and that precious baby and tell him to kiss your ass!!!!!!

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A True Man who Loves You.. appreciates you, loves you, and your body!!! Having a baby should be the most beautiful part of a relationship I would think! No one should ever made you feel bad about yourself.. beause everyone deserves to be respected and to feel Beautiful with who they are!

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Ummmmm. no. He can fuck HIMSELF

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He’s allowed to have an opinion. Sadly, you can’t help what you’re attracted to. Maybe talk to him about what exactly he’s not attracted to. If it’s something you WANT to change, then do it. If not, then don’t. Sometimes in relationships the “spark” disappears along with the attraction. It doesn’t necessarily mean that because you had a baby he thinks your ugly. He open and honest. If he’s an asshole about it then leave him. You can be in a sexless relationship, it doesn’t mean he will step out either but only you can decide what you want. Personally, I couldn’t be with someone who found me unattractive

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Throw him away 🤷🏻‍♀️ if he really loved you he’d be attracted to you still sounds like he’s making excuses

Could you go without sex?

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