Bj for him but no oral for me.

My husband thinks I should suck his cock when ever he wants me to and I shouldn’t say anything but the fact the he hasn’t gone down on me in YEARS is starting to piss me off, I shave down there cuz that’s how he likes it and I’m clean too but if I say something to him about trying something different he brings up an excuse like tonight he is all of a sudden stuffed up and can’t breath, like I’m just getting so sick and tired of it so from now on I’m on strike to BJ’s for him until he starts pleasing me. We are both 28 yrs old.