Your first time?

Question

When you’re a little girl people were always telling you that your first time should be romantic, unforgettable and with someone you love. I lost my virginity in my ex bf friend’s room when he was watching tv and it lasted about 10 mins..I was so over it so it wasn’t a big deal for me😂 How was your first time? Did you enjoy it? Remorseful? Or you just wanted to get it over with? Spill the beans!!

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Mine was actually great!
I went over to his place, we were watching a movie and then decided to nap. After we were making out things escalated and we started having sex.
He was super gentle, he didn’t rush me or anything, he kept making sure I was ok and he actually held my hand through most of it lol.
It lasted about an hour and afterwards we did nap. Woke up sore, took a shower together and then had dinner. Then I went back home lol.
The only thing I wish was different is that his room was FREEZING so I was shivering for the first few minutes lol.
He is my first kiss and first boyfriend, we’ve been together almost 5 years now and just had a baby boy together 💕

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No one told me anything about the first time being romantic or anything like that lol I just knew it would be a new experience. Lost my virginity on the very first date in his car lol. It was alright, I just remember feeling discomfort. Didn't expect anything out of this but we're still together (almost 3 years) and it happened to be his 21st birthday yesterday!

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Yeah no
He was flopping around like a fish out of water

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We did anal before vaginal, when we first tried vaginal, it hurt SO BAD! It took several tries before we were actually able to do it. It was in my bed, and I bled A LOT. I was super embarrassed and tried to tell him he was the one bleeding 😂😂

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It was on the floor of his friends apartment and another friend walked in the room, sat down and turned on the tv, and acted like it wasn’t happening. It lasted all of about 5 minutes. He said he would make it up to me the next time. Apparently sex in the back of his mustang down the street from my house was his idea of making it up to me.

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Mine was horrible. We were way too young and uneducated lol. Got naked, put the condom and started . No foreplay or anything. I was dry as fuck! it was terrible lol

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01/08/14
Oh my gosh.
Dear Diary;
You are never going to believe what happened this time. I just got back from another date at his place. It was supposed to be another Netflix and chill date only his internet wasn't working so we couldn't watch Fantasia like we planned. Instead we watched the Fox sitcom lineup and a few other shows. Honestly I don't really remember much of what was actually on the TV. Yep it was that different. Oh and no I never did figure out what to get him. This might have made up for it.
Anyways you know how I've been wanting that kiss. I finally got it and so much more. I'm not even going to write down what happened incase someone finds and reads it. We kinda swore to keep it between the two of us for as long as we're together. 
I can't even tell you how many bases we hit this time. I'd have to look it up. Let's just say it started with him finally kissing me. He may have licked my forehead. I think he gave me all the meaningful kisses. The four head, the cheek, the lips, the neck, and the hand. We even French kissed and went into full on make out. At some point he started massaging my shoulder. I keep moving his hand farther down until somehow it ended up in that place between my breast. He took advantage of that quickly. Honestly I might trust him a little too much. We went to second base with me sitting on his lap making out with him. 
I know the TV was on either Fox or Adult Swim at this point but I can't tell you what was actually going on. I think it was American Dad but I'm not sure. Next thing I know he took me to his room and I'm cutting it off there. 
Hope it happens again. 
Yours truly 
Cass
My First ever sexual encounter. About a year ago after a walk in the park we went all the way together. I’m going on a date with him tomorrow. We’re going on our first overnight trip this summer and sharing a hotel room. We have yet to have a Netflix and chill date that we actually we actually watched Netflix since that one time.

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My husband and I regret losing it so young(14&15), but it seemed to be something that made us stronger in our relationship. He rode his bike over to my house at like 1am and I snuck him through my window. He was slow and gentle with me, but it hurt, so it was hard to keep going. I ended up inviting him 2 more times and those times were much easier. We didnt really know what we were doing, but we made it work(yes, we used condoms). My family ended up seeing a hickey I was trying to hid and well, it all came out after they basically asked me back to back questions.
* On a side note, my family never liked him for some reason. *
We are now 24 & 25, married for almost 4 years, with an almost 2 year old daughter, and 18 weeks tomorrow with baby #2.

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