I am so conflicted. I have planned for a couple of years now to stay home the first year of my baby's life. We have money saved up, we have made financial changes to allow for it, and my husband has already started extra work. I've even started my Master's degree so that I'll be working towards forwarding my career while I stay home. Then I was told today that a possition I have been working towards for 5 years has opened up. I'm now faced with either giving up my year at home, or give up my dream job. I am so conflicted. My husband supports either decision, my family is no help, saying that it is my decision to make. Grandma, who would take over child care for us, is happy to watch her now or in a year. Both opportunities are equally good, either one that I give up I'll regret. I really don't know what to do. Any advice?