VBAC or vaginal? Scared to choose/outcome

Question

I'm prego with #4 and had the first 2 vaginally and my 3rd had the cord around her neck 3 times so emergency csec. I had plans on doing a vbac after the 3rd but now being prego and feeling my scar in "funny" ways is making me rethink a vbac even though I do really want one. I'm extremely scared anybody ever gone through this or going through this now any advice?

Answer

I  had  2 c sections and really want to try for a vbac rhis go round. I  hated my c sexrion recovery.  So this is what i did. I  searched for  a doc wgo would give me a chance.  Who told me she believed in me. I  am a very blunt open person and i am not willing to back down on what i want. Believe in yourself! Find someone your comfortable  with  who will pay attention to all the signs so if there  ia a problem they  are ready. You can do it!! Our. odies are amazinf and I for one woukd really  love to be able to get  up out of bed after  my baby without  a bunch of stiches in my belly! Best of luck

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I had 2 natural then 3 emergancy c sections my first c section I had placenta abruption she came 9 weeks early 2nd emergency at 36 weeks I was 6cm waters had broke but they said he was to big at 8lb to push so had to be cut I then was told I could try for vbac but midwife failed to see my scar was tearing hubby was told he could have lost us both!! My daughter is 9 month old and I’m currently 6 month preg and have to have planned c section this time . 
If u have had 1 c section chances of vbac are much higher and I so wish I had one as it took me 13 weeks to recover from last c section recovery is pants after especially having kids around house but that’s my opinion  all day long I would have vbac pain is over soon after c section to painful and not being able to life other children dreading it again

VBAC or vaginal? Scared to choose/outcome

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