I am bisexual. I have dated exclusively women for my whole life until these last two years when I started dating my current boyfriend. I never really thought I would be in a long-term relationship with a guy and like it.

He is loving, supportive, intelligent, creative. Really, he has the whole package. Here’s the thing, I miss women. He knows I like women and he tells me he doesn’t care if I have sex with other women. I don’t like just easy sex, I like developing a relationship first. I feel like I would be crossing the boundary if I did what I wanted to do.

I also feel like if I started sleeping with other people or pursuing outside relationships, that would open him up to sleep with other people and pursue outside relationships. I don’t feel comfortable with that and I do not think it is fair for me to want sex outside our relationship and deny him the same openness.

What do I do?

HELP!