Ok so my bf basically said that he feels unwanted and insecure because I’m never in the mood anymore for sex. It’s not really that im not in the mood it’s just I get lazy. We’ll be chilling in bed super comfy and I just don’t feel like it most of the time and I feel bad about it. It almost lead to us going on a break because he was just unhappy with that because it made his self esteem low. I think I’m gonna go buy a sexy outfit at VS today and surprise him tomorrow with that.. what do u guys think? I just want to bring the spark back because I miss it too. Mind you we’re only 19 so it makes him feel worse that we’re having this issue at such a young age :/ we’ve been at a weird place since we had this convo so I just want to patch things back up. Here’s some screenshots

EDIT: for those of u saying break up, I suggested that but we both don’t want to. He was just in a very bad state of mind and reacted negatively to everything . We do love each over and want to stay together, we decided breaking up wasn’t an option. So anything else?:/

UPDATE: so we talked more about it in person and decided breaking up wasn’t an option. Then he took me to a nice dinner where we had laughs and we got home and had FIRE sex! Now I’m in his bed typing this before work while he’s still sleeping ❤️