Am I in an abusive relationship?

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I’ve been with my husband for 4 years. He has a bad temper but so can I.
I think he just gets so stressed at work And he takes it out on me. He fussed about work and he gets aggravated with our 3months old crying. 
Sometimes he acts like he’s going to slap me but he never does. He’s twisted my arm one time (because he thought I was forcing medication down LO throat while he was crying and I wasn’t ) 
He’s mean sometimes and I tell him I hate him but I don’t. I love him so much. He’s not always mean. He’s loving and caring.

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If you have to ask then I’m assuming you already know you are.

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if your husband is getting mad over the baby crying, then he has issues. babies cry.... second, if he is physically putting his hands on you. you need to reconsider your relationship with him...no man should ever lay his hands on a woman.

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I said yes because while there isn't a whole lot of detail about your relationship, it definitely sounds toxic. I'm saying this referring to both sides. I don't think you should ever lay a hand on your partner, but I also don't think you should ever tell someone you hate them if you don't.

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It's difficult for me to answer without witnessing, I say this because there have been times in my relationship where people could think the same if I lightly spoke about things that have happened. 
If this isn't a regular occurrence and you can act this way to me too I would have to say no, we all deserve to be treated well but we are all also human, I understand having a newborn can be stressful for you both too.
When he twisted your arm was it malicious? Did it continue after he understood that wasn't what you was doing? 
Maybe speak to him, if you can. But please, if you feel unsafe at any time try to go somewhere don't let things get bad. Wish you the best and congratulations on baby!

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Google “wheel of violence”. And decide from there.

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Women in abusive relationships always try to make excuses for their abuser. “He has a temper but so can I”. 
A man should never lay his hands in a woman. Ever. All it takes is for that temper to cross the line once and he could hurt the baby.

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Just because it’s not physical (yet) doesn’t mean it’s not abuse. 
Mental and verbal abuse are just as bad and the moment he acted like he was about to hit you, it should have been over for him.

Am I in an abusive relationship?

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