Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. We had a beautiful baby boy in January. I had an easy pregnancy, not going to lie about that.

But since it was my first baby, I felt every pain and every movement my body was going through, even when I was in labour. I had to have an emergency c-section due to my baby being in destress and he had pooed inside me.

Ever since I have had that c-section my boyfriend said I had the easy way out and it was easy for me. Him not knowing the pain from the major operation and the postnatal depression I was suffering.

Tonight hit me hard.

We were lying in bed and he hurt his foot on the bed. I said “labour is worse” as a joke. And he said “I don’t know how, because you had an easy labour since you had a c-section.” Not to

mention this isn’t the first time he has said this. Still going through postnatal depression this hit me hard and made me feel worse than I already do...