Spouse blaming you for everything?

Anyone dealing with a spouse who blames them for everything!? I am... currently 11 wks pregnant and any time something happens or there’s miscommunication, it’s my fault. Told my husband Friday that I needed to cover the front desk at my job Monday which meant I wouldn’t have as much free time to run errands like I usually do. Also reminded him yesterday that I needed to be up early (Sunday night). Here we are Monday morning & he’s got an attitude bc “he didn’t know that we were both gonna get up at the same time to use the bathroom.” Didn’t apologize to me for blaming me for communicating that I had to be up at the same time he did. All he said was, “Yeah it just kinda went in one ear and out the other.” Well then listen to me! I told u for a reason... so we could discuss who would drop our child off, make him breakfast, etc. really can’t stand when he makes everything my fault and that’s just one example. There have been worse...