So, I always dated men and have only ever been with men. I am currently in a relationship with whom I hope to marry in the near future (man) but I always have this thought in the back of my mind... Since I could remember, I have always wanted to marry a man and raise a family with a man but throughout high school and even as I’ve gotten older, I’ve always been somewhat attracted to women and have even considered dating a female. Like, I would totally be fine with being in a relationship and being intimate with the same gender but idk if I would want to marry a female. I guess that could always change because if I were to fall in love, there would be no question about it. I’ve never acted on it but I’m totally not against it... does that make me bi? Serious question too, so don’t make fun, please. Plus, my SO have discussed a threesome and I’ve told him from the jump that if we ever did it, I’d want it to be with someone bi or would be willing to please both of us because I am completely down... literally thinking about it kinda turns me on. Like I said, it’s not just an attraction sexually, I would totally be willing to be in a relationship. Obviously I’m not gonna cheat and I DO plan on marrying my man but I think this will always be a thought in the back of my mind.

P.S. At a party almost a couple of years back, my coworker (bisexual) and I got a bit tipsy and her mouth ended up on my breasts for a brief moment and oh boy... I may have done more if I had the opportunity. She even told me she found me attractive and I was super flattered. This situation definitely didn’t help with my sexuality confusion🙃

Please do not come at me sideways about this topic. I am not planning on cheating and am happily taken, I’m just trying to answer past questions I’ve had and figure out who I am.