Moved to a new state, new mom.. lonely..

My husband and me moved back to his home state for hope in more support and a fresh start with our new son.. So far it’s been a terrible idea. Dealing with baby blues ontop of a non supportive family who promised me time and time again they’d be more than happy to be in our lives has just brought me to a whole new low. My husband and me argue about it because i just seem so miserable although i’m trying to be strong because i know he’s doing a lot with his job and getting us settled... I’ve brought up to his family that i feel alone and kind of regret the whole move and their response is “as a new mom you don’t get to do much or have people involved. I never got help either, life is just hard.” They’re probably right, i don’t know why i thought them saying they’d help meant them being around more and i wouldn’t be so alone... Which is why i’m coming to these discussions for some advice, i’m feeling so down but also like it’s my fault.. I’m not really sure how to change it, i don’t have resources to get out of the house. I’m just at a loss and even venting about all this feels better. My son is my whole world and i wouldn’t want to change that, just a friend or someone to be around would be nice.. I never had a close family so i was really hoping his family would accept me and bring me into their circle.

If you’re reading this thank you for taking time to. If you have any advice all is welcome, just please don’t be too harsh. I’m already beating myself up over this whole situation.