Misgender

J • J-15-queer-non-binary (she,he,they)

So often I get misgender and I totally understand why people would think that I’m a boy I have a short boy hair cut I don’t have large boobs and I don’t dress very feminine. today I was helping my mom with work and one of the stupid yard duty lady(also my mom works at a school) she told me why I had short hair and she mistook me as a boy and I didn’t say anything back to her because the hoe just isn’t worth my time the whole day I thought about it.I was telling my mom and my grandma was in the room and she said aren’t you mad about it and I said no because I been misgender on multiple occasions and I think it amazing I can be a girl but pass as a boy my grandma kinda just laughed about it.Ive been thinking about it and I wouldn’t mind being a boy or a girl or between I confused with myself some one help me understand.