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the erratic behavior is most likely the reason he doesn't have friends. No one wants to be around someone like that. the fact that his behavior scares you is a sign you need to leave and it also sounds like you are unhappy based on this post.
I love him but....
I love my bf but sometimes he can be very erratic when we fight. It scares me and makes me think he’s mentally unstable. I don’t think he’s gonna hurt me, but seeing him like that doesn’t make me wanna deal with him.He has ADD and anxiety and lose self esteem I suppose from not having friends, but to me it’s not the end of the world and he has me🙋🏾♀️ I’m guessing im not enough and he wants friends. He says he’s just expressing how he feels but idk. I get scared when he talks about marriage because of this. Maybe we’re just not meant to be 🙁. This sucks because I’m tired of seeing everyone married and having kids and I can’t even get that.
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If you feel unsafe, that's a problem. If you don't feel you can talk to him about it safely when he is calm, that's a bigger problem. My boyfriend has ADHD and struggles with anger management, there were times when he would scare me when angry. I walked away, then waited to a calm time and spoke with him about, things are much better, he does not scare me anymore, he takes the time to try and control his impulsivity. ADD/ADHD makes it very difficult to control impulses, especially when frustrated or angry. I am not suggesting to stay in unsafe relationship, but I think you will find some help in articles and bool about ADD/ADHD, and those directed for those who are in relationships. at the end of the day- Safety is the priority.
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