Well the thing is that the guy

is my first boyfriend and we have been together for almost 6 years now in November. My family hates him so i literally don't have no one to talk to when i have a problem and need advice. I often came to this app and see other girls talking about their problems and i learn from them. But this time is my turn and first of all i want to apologise cause is long but I'm getting crazy and I'm fustrating myself about this problem (also I'm sorry about my English I'm still learning and I'm Spanish speaker).

So in our first year, he came to me one day super sad and with that brokenheart face and told me his ex, I'll call her J, told him that is not fair for her current man that she still had my man in her heart so she decided to end that right there. He then said that he can now appreciate me more.. what is that suppose to mean???? He didn't appreciate me since the beginning???? I didn't know and i didn't know what to do, so i let go.

When my mother found out we had sex, she sent me away for a month so i could forget him, but his my first boyfriend (i was 19 when i started to date him) and i really love him (I'm not sure any more about my feelings). I eventually came back and the first thing i did was meet up with him.

After like two years we had the same problem again because they started to talk and spent up to three hours talking by phone and he didn't even last 5 minutes with me. We argued for like a week about that until he decided to call her (in front of me) and told her they can't talk again cause is affecting his relationship and hurting me.

Perfect! Our relationship become deep at the point we couldn't be far from each other. He then told me he would go out of state to find better life and get everything prepare so for me to go. He wanted to buy a house and have the job prepare. I loved the idea cause we have been together for so long alredy. So why not?

He left and it didn't go the way he planned so he moved to Orlando to try there. I personally love Orlando and his mother and family live there so it would be better for him and me. I went to visit him after nine months of not seeing each other and it was AN AMAZING WEEK!!😝😝😝

I still had to come back to NY and i was so sad that i had to left him because i missed him so much, but he surprised me by taking a job just for the summer to be with me in NYC. I was so exciting and everything until i checked his phone this pass Monday.

I found out that while he was away, he started to talk to J again and i asked him why. He told me that they are just friends. She have been going through a lot and he gave her advice on what to do and also she gave him advice in what to do.

Like three almost four months ago he told me i was fat. When he went away i focus more on school and work. I started to suffer from thyroid last year so i knew i gained weight and it hurt me cause i was not expecting that reaction out of no where. So i started to use some products I'm selling and i had loss 10 pounds from May until now. So J adviced him in how to get me back happy and forget the fact that he told me I'm fat (I'm 5'8" tall so my height also affect the numbers).

Going back to the main story, i don't like her because of the fact that she is just one ex, i feel like he prioritize her more and they way they speak react to each other is not from friends. In Spanish we say "donde hubo fuego, cenizas quedan" (Where there was fire ashes remain, i think that's the translation). Also what i could read after those messages is that she has his entire schedule of work and his days off so she can text him/call him. So she has been monitoring him.

Look at this picture and tell me yourselves what do u think?? Am i exaggerating?