It feels so hopeless

So month nine of ttc.. saw a fertility specialist last week and found out I also have pcos with the endo I already knew I had. I am on clomid so I am pretty sure I will actually ovulate this month but dear husbands colon is inflamed and it is causing him to have ED. I don’t know what to do.. I should ovulate any day now and he just can’t get there 😰 I don’t want to make him feel worse but I’m so tired of struggling