Birth control help!

Hello I am having a birth control crisis! So I am 17 and have been on birth control pills in the past and absolutely loved them, however my mom has issues with the pill and wanted me to stop using them. This was fine because I wasn’t active sexually anymore. Now that I am again, I can’t get back on the pill, my partner hates condoms, they irritate me, and I’m allergic to spermicide. So it’s seeming like we’re out of options which is okay! But if anyone has any advice I’d love it! Also some info on plan B!