I feel alone.

My husband does not want to have sex with me. He wants a baby however I don’t think he understands how to make one 🙃🙃

We have been together for 6 total years, married for two. I’m 27 and he’s 31 and just recently decided we wanted to start trying for a baby. I went off BC about 8 months ago not because we were TTC but more medical/personal reasons. So I guess you can say we have been passively trying.

I had a scare 3 months ago where we thought I was pregnant. I told him and he started to cry, he was so excited. Then once I got my period, he was totally fine.

After that, we decided we really wanted to try! I’m starting to freak out because we are getting older and I feel like infertility affects A LOT more people than I ever realized.

This month, I tried to get him to have sex with me every other day during my “fertile week”. We made it twice and missed my peak ovulation date because he was too tired. I’m trying REALLY hard to not be that woman that says we need to have sex at this time. I want it to be fun! But just getting him to do the deed is impossible.

I’m not a model by any means but I don’t think I’m unattractive either. When we first met, we had sex multiple times A DAY.

Sorry for the long post and I thank you if you’re still with me haha can anyone relate or give me any advice? I honestly feel hopeless at this point.