Is there a problem with jealousy in a relationship?

Question

So, I read a lot of posts of women saying they don’t want their SO hanging out with other women alone, or vice versa, and comments of women saying “you shouldn’t be so jealous, etc etc” 
I wouldn’t want my fiancé to hang out with some girl by theirselves. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Unless it was work related or something. 
He is the same way. Like I have a close guy friend who I have been friends with for a long time, but my fiancé wanted to meet him first and he wanted us to include him in things sometimes. One of my girl friends told me that it was weird and he shouldn’t be so jealous. 
Idk I didn’t have an issue with it. Is it healthy for a relationship to have a tiny bit of jealousy? Or no?

Answer

I think it depends on the trust you have for both people.
I trust my partner. But I dont trust other girls. So that's where the issue lies. But if it was with a mutual girlfriend, that I do trust, it wouldn't be an issue.

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I'm pretty easy going, my husband pretty much does what he wants and doesn't need "permission"... same goes with me. 
With that being said, there's obviously things that aren inappropriate, such a hanging out alone with another male/female... I always look at it like this, if I wouldn't be ok with him doing it then it's not okay for me to do it either. 
As long as you have common sense and mutual respect for each other then there shouldn't be issues.

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Depends. Theirs jealousy and then there’s being controlling. Telling you who you can and can’t hang out with is controlling but just voicing that you might not like your SO hanging out with a particular person because you get vibes or whatever is fine. It is all about trust. Like, even if your SO is hanging out with a girl alone, you should trust your SO that they wouldn’t do anything. Otherwise... why be with them?

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Yes. That's how I know a guy is cheating on me. If he gets jealous, I start asking people questions and always find out things. Awful things. It's more of a "I'm a jerk, I do this to you, but I don't want you to do this to me" kind of situation. That's my experience. 😁

Is there a problem with jealousy in a relationship?

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