Squirting

Ne

I’m a little embarrassed to ask about this but duck it.

Every time my boyfriend fingers me and every time we have sex I feel the urge to pee, even if I’ve peed just before. Someone told me that I just have to let it go and that I’d squirt but I’ve tried really hard and 1) if I just relax, nothing happens, and 2) if I push like when I pee, nothing comes out, i just can’t, it’s like there’s something blocking it

Any advice?