ok my husband and I have been trying to conceive since October 2016 and few family members knew we were trying. we have a then 18 year old son who's girlfriend was on Bc but got pregnant in October she invited me to the ultra sound were she should have been around 18 weeks during ultrasound in late February she was only early 9 weeks( was not on bc and didnt ger pregnant till late december) I got pregnant in January and we were due a few weeks apart. my husband and I were trying and they said my grand child was an accident. ok I sadly lost mine in April she carried and delivered early in July 2017 but my grandson is doing great. now everyone knows we were still trying and I fell pregnant again in March and I am currently 14 weeks 2 days and I get a phone call saying my son and his girl are pregnant again. she says she was on bc again but I know she wasn't until about a month ago cause she told me so. but hadn't had a period for over 2 months I think she's planning these pregnancies around mine my son has no idea she's lieing to him about bc and wont listen so now hes gonna have 2 babies he cant care for their living with my mother who provides everything he only works part time about 8 hours a weeks she gets fired on purpose she's had 3 jobs since baby was born last year. I feel like everyone is thinking I'm getting pregnant because she is and no one will listen. so frustrated.

guess I should go into more detail here I am happy about my grandson and would be happy about this second child if they even gave 2 sh*ts about the one they have. he was in NICU for 4 months and I am the only one who visited daily and cps was contacted by hospital and cps was going to place him with me due to parents not visiting or taking proper classes for him to come home. they were threatened and forced to take the classes or they would have lost him and the stipulation to him going home in their care was that they had to live at my home and not be left alone with the child. they chose to live with my mom cause she doesn't enforce rules or make them be responsible at all. he originally moved out at 17 because he didnt like our rules for his chores. so they still live with her and must stay living with her. the babys mother has no care for her child. if anyone is around she doesn't care for him diapers bottles feedings is all done by my mom or if they are at my house by me she will say straight out here you can feed him since you dont see him often. I do it enough. my son wont change him at all and wont feed him because he takes to long. and my mom recently told me that the mom spanked him for trying to bite her the other day I have no witnesses it but hes only 11 months and delayed you dont spank a baby.