Can you get full custody of my husband has verbally and had put hands on me do I need to have evidence even proceeded to have sex with me against my will I told him to stop and I was crying he still continued when I tell him what he did as far as rape he tells me to shut up and to leave if I don’t like it ... I’ve cheated on him can he use that against me ? He says I’ve destroyed his life and his heart but he treated me like crap before as well which is what lead me to the affair he neglected me as a a person love and caring just for sex