Yesterday i read a story on here about a women who was proposed by her boyfriend. What she was asking if she can be disappointed in her ring.

To be fair the ring was very very simple indeed. Now she included these factors.

1. They are very well off so he could afford a better ring.

2.He also told her that he couldn’t be bothered to drive an hour to get the ring she actually wanted.

My question is, if you were to be engaged and your SO knew what you wanted but you feel disappointed would you change it or talk to him about it?

Personally for me i think the ring is kind of the token of your love and i would want to show it and be happy with it. I am also not going to lie that i like fancy things🤷🏼‍♀️. How do you feel? Would it matter to you?

Tip. This is not about love, the aim of the question is to discuss where is the line of him respecting your desires and wishes and you just being happy that he proposed.

Also refrain yourself from accusing women of being materialistic or careless or other adjectives if you dont agree with someone, debate but dont be rude. Some of the comments on the other thread were awful.