I need advice

So me & my ex bf we’re together for 2 years & we did a lot together sex everything & im in a new relationship now it’s gonna be 6 months in July & I just can’t stop thinking about all the stuff me & my ex use to do, my new bf doesn’t let me touch him like that & it gets really annoying The most the ever did to me was suck on my boobs & finger me & eat me but he doesn’t let me do anything to him I really want too but he like stops me or takes my hand away when I get too close, me & my ex had a lot of sex & to go from a relationship where I’m use to get what I wanted to one where I can’t makes me mad I wish he would get over whatever is holding him back from doing that with me. You girls can be honest with me just tell me how it is my bestfriend said patience but there’s only so much patience a person can have you know ?