Get out of the Army or stay in? (dual military)

I am a little over 10 weeks pregnant and I was counseled by my Captain yesterday on my options. I have till this coming Monday to sign the paper taking chapter 8 to get out of the Army. And from Monday i will have till 30 before my due date to provide a Family Care plan detailing who we will be giving partial custody of my child in case we both get deployed, go to the field or go to training. I am distant from my family, they dont support my interracial marriage, my friends are young and still live at home with their parents. My husband's mom lives with her boyfriend and works too much, his dad didn't raise my husband, in fact they just started talking so him and his wife are out of the question. We live 7 to 10hrs away from friends and family so no one around to babysit when our job needs it. Plus my husband just reenlisted so we would most likely be moving. If we don't come up with the Family Care plan then they have to automatically discharge me from the Army. My husband wants me out and I do as well but I am so confused and conflicted! I do not want others thinking I got married/pregnant to get out and I am afraid of being without a job and leaving the Army. I am just so scared!