So I’m 21+5 my hormones are crazy wild right now. But not towards anyone except my boyfriends 12YO sister. She has ADHD. And her mom doesn’t make her take her medicine. When I say she it the worst 12 YO I have ever met I seriously mean it. She is the most spoiled child. I live with my boyfriend and his family 4 of us in a 2 bedroom apartment. I have to babysit her all day because she is so bad. I clean up after her every single day. The whole apartment. Even her room. I tell her to pick up something that she messed up and she will not do it. Yesterday I was cleaning and she wouldn’t clean her room. She said I’ll clean my room for 2 dollars I said okay go do it. She never did it. Then she comes in the living room while I’m cleaning and says ok my $2. I said no clean your room right and I’ll give you $2 and she throws the biggest fit. The other day I was making her bed which is her moms bed as well and she literally sits on it and gets under the sheet while I’m making it. I asked her to get off and she just sits there. My boyfriend literally had to scream at her. That same day when I was doing the bed she came in there while my bf was helping make their bed and she says “you have a spider on your shoulder” I knew I didn’t but she proceeds to walk towards me and literally full force slapped my face. HARD. It took everything in me to not slap this child back y’all. My bed told his mom and all she said was you can’t watch vine anymore. Which was where she saw it at. My bfs mom does not punish her like she should be. She acts a fool everywhere we go. Telling waitresses to shut up and walking in front of them while they are doing stuff. Talking back to her mom. Her mom literally does nothing. She gets in peoples faces, spits on them, has absolutely no home training whatsoever. I was not raised like that and I don’t know how much more I can take. It’s too much. Please someone help. I need a calming method lol