I found it , well what I could find on Facebook and his ipad. And it hurts so bad lady’s . Our daughter was playing with his ipad today and opened his messages (old never refreshed so he disconnected it from his phone) but I found someone he use to work with , he was saying all this lovely shit to her and her semi flirting back I think she just didn’t want to much over the texted because they FaceTimed and saw each other at work as well. But this all happened when our daughter was about 6/7 months old and has been going on until this year (I’m assuming) she’s 2 now by the way. And I’m about to give him his second child . AND THIS BITCH HAS MET MY DAUGHTER IS WHAT IS THE MOST FRUSTRATING PART ! I don’t really care men come and go I get it but like DONT USE OUR CHILD TO FLIRT WITH WOMEN ! 😤 and yes she knew we were together , she also has a boyfriend and it’s the same man still, but lady’s I’m at a lost for words I plan to confront him about it today at 7 so let me know if you have any advice or what I should say or if I should confront her ... I’m at a loss.

Sorry they are blurry and trying to keep it private as possible .

Lady’s I will give you an update once everything goes down I am waiting for him to get home and put my child to sleep first because she does not need to see or hear it . Also I know she seems innocent but they worked together and FaceTimed quite often so I’m wondering if she didn’t want to say much over the texted

So update; I confronted him , he cried broke down told me everything , as well as her she said even though he sent some crazy ass shit she never took him seriously, he never did or said anything to her in person, they never met outside of work or after work , she also said he was a very heavy drinker at that time (which he was an alcoholic I had to pick him up from that job multiple times cause he be drunk ) and when I looked back from that time frame we were not together for a short two months , but it still hurts to read that and see our daughter be used to pick up chicks 🙄 as of right now we are not together I don’t know what to do yet. Also he went into this whole two hour ordeal of how that was long ago, didn’t last long and it was the dark point in his life because we had broken up, thought he was going to lose me and thought someone I worked with I was fooling around with 🙄 . He also asked me if I went through everything social media , I told him I did and he handed me his phone and told me to look through anything I wanted (which I did and didn’t find anything other than what I’ve already seen between her and him.) last thing he also deleted all social media (which good because I don’t have it, I find it pointless) and told me he’d put a tracker on his phone and have everything sent to the iPad for me to see. (obviously no that’s so excessive I’m not that crazy lol) but I still don’t know lady’s , we’ve been together for many years I’ve never found anything before and ive looked Sorry for the long update sorry it might be jumping all over the place it’s been a lot I may have more later on