I cannot be the only momma lol

My 21 Month is driving me nuts lol. I LOVE her to death but I cannot take the constant whining about everything. Yes, I understand that this is the “learning to communicate their needs stage,” however my daughter talks very well for her age. She’s BRILLIANT. Yet, whines a lot lol

Don’t get me wrong she VERY strong-willed and loves to do just about anything and everything independently. She can put on her clothes, shoes, use potty, etc. all by herself and absolutely hates it when I help UNLESS she says “mommy help.”

Does any other momma have a baby with this temperament?