Will it hurt?

Question

So i haven’t had sex in over a year. My last boyfriend and I only had sex once and it was my first time (which hurt obv). He passed away 10 months ago when we were broken up. I haven’t been comfortable sexually with anyone since tho just cause I haven’t been ready. I’ve finally been kinda talking to this one new guy now and I’m ready but I’ve turned him down twice cause I’m scared it’s gonna hurt. Any tips?

Answer

i had my first time a few months ago, and it took us three tries to work his dick inside me all the way. it hurt like a bitchhhhhhh the first few times. the third time it still hurt but i was determined to just get it in this time, so i just bore through the initial pain. once it was all the way in, the pain quickly disappeared tbh. i didn't bleed either. now it's fine and never hurts as long as there's enough lubricant.
my advice would be to take it slow and don't be discouraged if it hurts. i was embarrassed that i couldn't handle the pain the first few times and i was making my partner waste condoms but he didn't care and he was very patient with me, and stopped when it was too much. so if he's a good guy, he won't rush you or blame you if you need stop or anything. 
good luck and be safe!

Answer

Use lube generously. Or coconut oil

Will it hurt?

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