Hey, girls! I just need some advice on how to handle a delicate situation..

I found out a few days ago that one of my bf's closest friends (who is in a long term relationship but hooks up with other girls also) supposedly got from his grilfriend a wierd and really yucky infection, which they both left it untreated for some time, and we're taking about months to a year. Note worthy, they're have a poor hygiene, are lazy and have low to none intrest in solving it.

Basicly his friend doesn't want to go to see a doctor or get tested because "he can still edure it". The idiot thought his girlfriend gave him hemorroids.. but he's looking at the wrong hole.. and from what i understand he has some inflamed and filled with pus bumps on his manhood or on the tip and ocasionally discharges blood and pus, yet he still can somehow endure it.

Maybe i'm over-reacting about this all, but i'm concerned about my bf's health because they're friends and sometimes when they hang out or gather for a boys night with other friends at that dude's place, where he showers (using as he says his own and home brought shampoos and towels) and spends the night when necessary.

I don't know what it is and how contagious might be.. i just hope my bf doesn't get it as well.

I'm thinking on asking him to get tested or at least go with his friend at a clinic and have that guy tested because friends help eachother..

Any thoughts?