Is my relationship toxic

This is probably a dumb question, so I shouldn’t even ask it.

I love my boyfriend. A lot. We’ve been together for almost 8 months. We hang out a lot and we’re always going places and getting food and doing different stuff.

Recently someone told me that he’s not good for me, and that it’s a toxic relationship.

Keep in mind that I’ve been in abusive relationships and have trust issues.

I don’t think it is but I want to know what you guys thing. Here’s some examples of what goes on:

He gets upset about my anxiety because I ask questions over and over, he’s told me it gets on his nerves.

He gets upset when I don’t want him going with his friends and I’d rather him be with me (sometimes I need a little extra love..) and he usually just goes with them anyway.

He gets upset that when I call to tell him goodnight, that I hate it and get upset when he’s in the middle of an Xbox game because he only half pays attention to me even though he claims I have his full attention.

He gets angry when I cry and tries to play it off as “I don’t like knowing I’m the reason that you’re upset” five minutes after saying “I’m leaving” or “I’m hanging up” because he “doesn’t want to sit there and listen to me cry.”

He doesn’t like my family (other than my nieces) or my friends.

He doesn’t like me asking him to tell me when he leaves to go somewhere and when he gets there. I just want to know he’s safe..

Claims I don’t give him freedom.

Blames me for all the fights we have when they would’ve never started had he just done something like pause a video game, be on time for stuff, update me on where he is so I know he’s okay, etc.