What would you do? (Husband problem)

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So I know this in Some way wrong but I have tracking device on my husband that knows exactly where he goes and some live civilians video in his work. I Know to much, but I have trust issues with men in the past and never fully believe that they will remain trustworthy completely and believe that you always have to keep track on them. So I found out something that my husband hide behind my back without telling me In my face and I feel really despondent  and betrayed. 
So I confronted him in a Way without him knowing That I fully know the truth, I toke it easy and repeated the question severely time to confirm the answer And what does he do?! Look me in the eye and lie completely! I'm so despondent and angry, how could he lie to me?! I'm his fucking wife!
 So now I don't know what to do? Would I tell him that I know the truth and reveal how and probably never know in the future if he lies to me again or get revenge against him like he did?
What would you do??

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Your also doing stuff behind his back (stalking him) so your just as guilty. If my s/o had a tracking device on me id hand him divorce papers asap

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What did he do? It sounds like he went to a strip club. 
You are too deep in. If my husband told me he was tracking me I would divorce him. That is stalker like behavior. Your issues are your issues. Go get counseling. If you tell your husband you've been doing this you might get divorced.

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He may have lied to you but you are basically stalking him. That does not sound like a healthy relationship.

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While I agree with many of the contents here, some seem harsh just for the sake of being harsh.
I do feel bad for you that you feel like you need to track your husband. My husband witnessed a lot of infidelity before we got together (his former fiance cheated on him and his mom also had an affair), so he had a really hard time trusting me when we were dating and even the first few years we were married. 
Please talk openly with your husband and tell him that you WANT to be more trusting of him. And consider counseling. It sounds like you may need to see someone on your own, but then consider couple's counseling as well. Your husband won't know how to help you trust him if he doesn't fully know how much of a struggle this is for you. 
Yes, it's possible that he'll be really angry that you've secretly followed his every move, and he may decide he wants a divorce, but it doesn't sound like your marriage is totally blissful as it is, and that won't change if neither of you takes any action to make things better. The longer you harbor all of this, the more resentful you'll become, and resent is poison to a marriage.
Coming from someone who was fed up with having to account for every minute of my day, I beg you to please show your husband some selfless love and make the choice to do something constructive for yourself and your relationship. You can't change him, but you can change yourself. I was ready to give up on my marriage because I felt imprisoned. But once my husband made a conscious effort to trust me and stopped asking me where I was going/had been and stopped checking my emails or texts or social media messages, I knew he was trying to give US a fair chance. Best wishes!

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Stop stalking him. At this point you're both liars, congrats.

By stalking him you'll never be "satisfied" until you find something, so where does it end? Honestly you need to get a grip on your baggage and either choose to move forward in your marriage or keep up the crap and lose him over possibly nothing.

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You are living a lie with him, so you are just as guilty. I really believe you should tell him.

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Maybe he lied because he knows your jealous and possessive I'm sorry but I know I don't know you but your stalking your husband does he know would he be ok with it if you can't trust him you shouldn't of married him and if the lie isn't about him screwing another woman then it isn't a big deal really

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I would look at the bigger picture in this problem which would be you stalking your husband like he's a dog! Putting a tracking device on your husband is not ok.

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Is there anyway that you can tell him you know the truth?

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If you are so untrusting of someone you never should have married them. This is screwed up. You are lying to him every day by tracking him and not telling him. I say you have no right to be angry and that this relationship is doomed either way. Just because something bad has happened to you in the past does not mean you get to treat your husband like an animal. You will drive him away and one day he will crack and do something wrong and then you'll feel all entitled and treat him like shit. This is no way to live for either of you.

What would you do? (Husband problem)

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