Guy problems

I’ve been talking to this guy for 5 months now. We’ve become really good friends. But we do like each other but we both want to take things slow and just see where it takes us so for now we just friends. He’s a great guy but he gets on my nerves at times, he can be an ass sometimes but not an asshole but an ass that pushes me to be better. I guess he sees my potential and how I can “glow up” if I tried. He calls it positive criticism but sometimes it gets on my nerves but I know he means good so I like him but he doesn’t want to date so I mean it’s cool cause me either but I just wish I knew more about his feelings. Like if we’re always going to be friends or wha my you know? There’s also this other guy he’s the sweetest, he really cares about me and shows it. He’s more open about his feelings . And he’s honestly the whole package. But I don’t find him attractive In that way or idk what it is. Every time he tries to kiss me I turn my head lol but he keeps talking to me and I’m like why? Lol but I don’t understand why i don’t want to if he’s so good to me. I already told him Im not looking for anything and he said he doesn’t mind waiting for me.

I’m not really sure what I’m trying to ask. I just need like a girl talk ig.