Finding BF’s ex sex pic in his laptop?

Question

Hi everyone! What should you do if one day you find sex pictures of your boyfriend and his ex? When I saw it, I think it’s the past so let them go but sometimes I think of it and it really bothers me so bad :(

Answer

Ask him to delete them.

Answer

I don't blame you for being upset. I Would be hurt too. I would tell him how you feel about it because communication is important in a relationship.

Answer

We all have a past. He might not even realize he even still has those in there.
I think the bigger question is why do you feel the need to snoop through his laptop looking for stuff like this? If you clearly don’t trust him why are you with him?

Answer

why does it bother you so badly?

Answer

This happened to me too with my husband. When he was my bf still, I found a lot of photos on his computer and printed out. I told him that it made me feel uncomfortable and he said deleted them. We have been together 9 years now and I think they are all gone. Part of me still wonders if he still has them somewhere because he was so mad when I told him to get rid of them. I know there are still old emails in his inbox from 10 to 12 years ago but as long as he isn't communicating with any of them I am fine. I think you should tell him how you feel and ask why keep those? If it's the past then he shouldn't need to have them.

Finding BF’s ex sex pic in his laptop?

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey