will I ever grow properly?

Question

I just finished 9th grade. It’s not like I haven’t gone through puberty, you know, I’ve had my period for a few years now, all that sort...
but for the past year or so I have just been so miserable about my physical looks. I’m nothing at all.. I just feel so ugly. In my facial features, and you know, my breasts and butt.
I agree, and I know, I’m way way too young to even be concerned about these things. It’s really unfortunate. but I just see it everywhere I go and kids my age are already talking about how they’ve had sex and stuff and I just feel... like.... you know........
well I eventually REALLY grow? get bigger breasts and an ass? does that ever happen or is just to lucky people? you see all these things in media all the time and I don’t know if they’re actually real /will happen

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Ahhhh me too!! I just finished 9th gr and am in the same boat as you. I try to just look past that I’m flat as a washboard like fr I’m not the only one lmao. At least it doesn’t hurt when you run 🤷‍♀️ and you can freely lay down on your stomach.... ye? Maybe not. Ahh I always try to think that way then I see someone I consider attractive and is uk... thiccc.... 😐😔. I think body positivity and confidence is the key but, woxjowksiwksk it’s soooo hard. 
About the sex thing,, thats totally okay lol. I don’t think you should be think about not getting some if you worry about that. Like the day will come eventually. Just don’t try to rush things. Everyone is different. Everyone feels ready to have sex at different ages and times. And you have 3 more years + college + after college. Who cares about if you’re still a virgin by then?... some people actually,,, but my point was uhhm don’t stress about not being sexually active at such a young age because you still have aaalllllll those years to lose your virginity??
((If that made sense aaaahh lmao omg))

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I’m sure you’ll fill out with a little more time. Try not to dwell on it in the mean time. 
No matter when or if it happens though, you are beautiful and perfect just the way you are❤️

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A lot of the stuff In the media is photoshopped. Even if it’s not each person Is different. I’m 23 now and had two kids and only have and ass and boobs while pregnant or breastfeeding. But I’ve learned to try to love and accept myself even though people think I’m 12 half the time. You may still develop more but you might stay the way you are doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you, and as for sex don’t do it just to do it. Find someone you care about and makes you feel good about yourself and comfortable.

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I WANNA RESTART SO I DELETED MY LAST ONE. I just finished 9th grade too, and I’ve been feeling the same way as you lately. I went to a pool party last night and all these girls were developed already. (I’m sitting here looking like a cardboard box) And a lot of them have already had sex as well. Sex is a big deal to me and it always has been. Some girls want to get it over with while others want to save it for “the one” DO NOT DO IT UNTIL YOU ARE READY. There’s no rush to that. But your body is unique! Be confident in who you are and how you’re made. There’s nobody else with your looks, Rock it sister!

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Ur boobs aren’t going to just pop out and same with your butt lol you can do squats to help ur butt but that’s pretty much it

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puberty can last for years. some girls just take longer to develop. focus on school for now, you won't regret it later.

will I ever grow properly?

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