My gut tells me there is someone else

Hey guys. I believe my husband may be having a affair but I can’t prove. It’s his activity. Like lately, these last few months; he been wanting to go to “Walmart” everyday for something silly. He come back with something but he gone for like 3 hours and comes back with chips and tea. Or something.

Tonight tops the cake. So he said he has to go check on a battery at Walmart since we just came from the city. I asked him “why you didn’t check on a battery for your car when we were just in town. His excuse was “i forgot.” So he left at 11 pm cuz we got back at 10:30 pm. And it’s current 1:30 am and he still gone. You want me to believe it take 3 hours to check a battery at Walmart????? I called his phone but it went straight to voicemail! I’m so shocked in disbelief. Like what did I do for this. I can’t sleep you guys. So I’m literally up right now waiting for some dumb ass excuse he will make up. I don’t know what I will say. I put the kids to bed. And I’m waiting on the couch. In the dark to make it look like I’m in bed.

So you guys... what should I say when he walk through the door?

PS I will update in the morning

Update 1: I called him blocked and he told me he not at Walmart and they he at a guy friend house. I said this late? He said he on his way back home now. He hurried to get off the phone. It’s very weird because I tried to call back and now it’s no answer. 😓 I will let you guys know when he come home what happens

Update 2: he came home. I walked in and I said “I didn’t know it take 4 hours to get a battery. His response was “I didn’t stay long. I went to a group member house to tell him he out the group. (My husband is in a band) and he didn’t take it so well. You kept calling me and I turned my phone off. I asked him, why has he been leaving at weird times and bringing hardly nun from Walmart. He told me that he been going to the band meetings to discuss the member that he didn’t wanna kick out but they over ruled him. So I’m like, why you been acting weird these last few months. He says the band changing and acting like they wanna break up. So I flat out ask, is he cheating and if he is: its best to come clean now where I’m giving him the chance to hear him out then to me to find out because it won’t be pretty if I do. He looked at me shocked and said no. I said it one last time “for the sake of keeping your wife and your sons.. are you doing anything that entangles you with someone else? This is the time to tell me or it will be too late because you have a choice.. he said no. I got up and let it go for now.

What you guys think???

Update 3: I asked for his phone and he had no problem letting look in it. He asked me “why?” While handling it over. I said “to ease my mind mind. He shrugged his shoulders and gave it to me. I looked and didn’t see anything. I told him that it’s still very weird. I have no asked any of the members because honestly I don’t want them in my business. But I do agree with you guys. I told him that he shouldn’t treat

Me like that and shut off his phone. He said “you kept calling and bugging me while we all fussing. Just wasn’t the time to answer the phone. Sorry”. That’s all I got. We stopped talking about it. When I had his feelings phone, I also added my Apple ID for access to it. So if he cheating, it will come to me very soon.