IM SO TIRED OF WATCHING PEOPLE PUT EACH OTHER DOWN. Ladies we are each other's support for times when we don't know who else to ask. Be supportive and understanding. Some of you all did it your way which is marriage before babies or whatever your case is. Talking down to a scared teenager is not what elders are supposed to do with their knowledge. If more ladies spent more time uplifting one another we would all be better off. Some ladies don't realize that the scared 15 year old that you just told to "suck it up and deal with the consequences" is battling a lot right now. You never know someone else's struggles. We come here because we want to share things and get support not because (excuse my language) we want someone to help shit on our parades.