using utensils

My daughter knows how to use her spoon and fork, although she don't always make it to her mouth. She ends up upset because she's not eating as fast as she'd like and ends up ditching the utensils and uses fingers, even with yogurt. The pediatrician keeps asking about her using them and I keep telling her she doesn't like them and that's the end of the conversation. Is any one else having utensil trouble?

I show her a few bites every meal how to use it and she'll try it a time or two before throwing it to the floor.