Preeclampsia second time around??

Kara • Wife. Mother to one. Cancer survivor. Type 1 Diabetic.
So I had preeclampsia with my first child- was in labor at 35w2d and found out. Delivered him the next day and he remained in the NICU for almost two weeks. I am also a Type 1 Diabetic but with excellent control during pregnancy. 
We are TTC baby no. 2 and I'm super nervous about a repeat of what happened the first time! I read on a medical website that an actual factor that can contribute to preeclampsia is being a first time mom. How many of you had it with one baby and not another? Is there anything that you did differently??