2 days late!!!
So I'm late but I'm not worried like that becuz I've been late before and not pregnant..my husband has been hinting at wanting another baby lately. He met me with 3 kids, he didn't have any kids, so the son we had is first and only biological child so I understand him wanting more but I don't 😒
Now, hear me out. I have 4 children, my pregnancies are horrible, the last one was spent in and out of hospitals and on bed rest so I'm not anxious to be pregnant again. With all that's listed tho, that's not the biggest reasons... I don't like being pregnant for my husband. He's a great guy, an amazing father to our children and a wonderful husband but he's terrible at being with a pregnant woman. He has no compassion and there's no affection ( which is sorta needed).
I'll give an example of what I'm talking about....with my last baby things were bad, I couldn't keep anything down, doc had me on a couple meds which weren't working, except they made me feel worse and one day he walks in the door and immediately get an attitude, so after a few minutes of me talking to him and getting no response, I asked what's wrong and I'd never forget what he said...his response was " I know you're pregnant and not feeling well but why are you always lying down? This isn't your first baby so you should be used to it" I was baffled like wtf? But instead of going HAM because I was too weak too, I asked him what he'd suggest I do and he said and I quote "get out of bed, go for a walk, do something, just don't let me see you laying down when I walk in, it's sickening" I just cried because that happened to be the same day I found out our baby wasn't growing right and his heart rate was weak so him coming in upset because I was laying down destroyed me.
You see, he put a bad taste in my mouth about having kids with him, if our lil man was our first, he would also be our only..Idk what to do, I don't wanna lose my husband but I don't wanna be pregnant and miserable, alone 😕
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