So my husband and I have been married for two years but we haven’t been able to have vaginal sex. Everything is working on his end but whenever he tries to penetrate, it just won’t go in and it hurts so bad. I tear up and often cry. I’ve gone to doctors and I tried using dilators but they won’t even go in. I’ve gotten my hymen clipped so it wouldn’t be a problem. I’m just super tight and I don’t know what to do. I think it might have to do with me not being turned on enough. I had a really strong libito while we were dating but we waited until marriage (I don’t regret that) but a month before we got marriage I started taking the pill and it killed my libito. So I think that has to do with the problem.

P.S. We do use a vibrator and oral sex to satisfy each other, there is just no penetration.