Did you tear or have an episiotomy? Did you feel them stitching you up or was the rush and hormones overtaking the feeling of everything? What helped you during recovery the MOST besides your bundle of joy?

I’m just nervous to:

1. Face a 3rd/4th degree tear

2. Get cut

3. Have a longer recovery (depending on the tear)

4. Not being able to do what I want when I want without help for the “simple” things. I’m super independent and hate asking for help when I know I can do it myself

Just curious, how big was your baby? Feel free to post pictures! Also, do you have any tips for an “easier” push?