so this is my husband & I first baby . we're still young & he just got a new job in the oil field so he's not home from 5am - 6 pm & when he is home he's exhausted so he doesn't help much with the baby , he's almost 2 weeks old and it's all new to me so it is EXHAUSTING , waking up every hour , changing, feeding ect and when he is home he rarely holds the baby, he doesn't change not one diaper I've had him feed the baby which lasted about 40 seconds before he gave him back to me ! it's like now that he's born he shows very little affection and the only time he does show any is if he wants sex. which we can't do anyway right now .. but I don't know what to do or think I know he's tired , I am too.. but he doesn't help with anything of the baby , around the house . we never talk even when he is home .. it's like he's not even attracted to me anymore.. any tips ladies? I could definitely use some sort of comfort .