Sexting makes me insecure because of big clit help ☹️

I was sexting my boyfriend teasing him when I know he's at his nana's place and I sent him videos of me playing with myself etc.

Then he says that my clit is big. I doubt that he meant it negatively but I've always been so insecure with how big my clit gets when I'm aroused. It's like a little penis and I don't like it.

What do I do 😔😔