My husband doesn’t help with the baby

We went threw ice to get pregnant finally after 2 1/2 years I got pregnant I lost 40 lbs and had hyperemesis so I had to quit my job I threw up 30+ times a day and kept nothing down I spent most of my pregnancy alone at home in a bed horribly sick I had dr app 3 times a week I was high risk and I was hospitalized 5 times for a week each time it was horrible finally I was induced at 37 weeks for medical reasons finally my baby boy was here and completely healthy ! We husband does nothing to help he doesn’t do any thing with out me begging he refuses to wake up for night feedings he is under weight so he has to eat every 3 hours he won’t wash bottles,feed, change,pack a diaper bag, fix a bottle, get him ready or anything with out me begging them usually complains the whole time he is doing it and makes me feel like shot for even asking I’m a stay at home mom and love it but it’s nice to have help some times I get no sleep he eats at 3am,6am,9am,12pm,3pm,6pm,9pm,12am as soon as I feed him it takes 30 min to feed him then30to get him back to bed then 20for me to get comfy and get to sleep the. Have to get right back up my husband is home from 6pm to 7 am he doesn’t have a hard job I don’t feel like it’s unreasonable to ask for help then he complains cause I haven’t done all the laundry and cooked and done dishes and cleaned he is only 3 months old and a premi he vomits and aspirated to I have to keep a close eye on him i don’t have time to do everything needed and my mil constantly says he works all day and you sit at home he should have to get up for night feedings I won’t to strangle her