My boyfriend of 6 years and I have a beautiful daughter and he has a 7 year old from a previous relationship. He has yet to purchase a thing for our daughter, help with dr Bill's from NICU, help with daycare costs, or help me with her 1st bday that just passed. We live together and he helps with taking her to daycare and keeps her if I need a break. However, for his son he pays child support and provides him with clothes, expensive shoes, toys, and tablets. His son doesn't live with us. Which one is the better version of him?