gender reveal for first time moms

Rocio • Mommy to Our Angel 👼🏽 10/21/2018 & Our Rainbow 🌈 2/21/2020

first time mom's, are you guys doing a gender reveal? I'm torn to be honest. they look like fun. but I'm not sure I want 40 people in my backyard. and I feel bad that usually the second born babies don't get as much glory. I want our friends and family to be there and experience it with us, but I also feel like I want it to be private and then we can share with everyone else. any input?